💬Snipets💬: No Drama

"No Drama" I see it everywhere, from signs posted at clubs to people's profiles. What does it mean? You have "No Drama"? or You desire to have "No Drama"? It seems to me as if those who utilize that song title from Mary J. Blige are trying to convince more so themselves that they have "No Drama". The hardcore truth is if they have people on their list, a best friend or a lover/partner then they have some kind of exposure to drama.

Whatever baggage your lover or best friend carries soon becomes yours

The moment you partner someone or acquire a best friend (your partner should be your best friend to some degree) they become a portal for drama. Whatever baggage your lover or best friend carries soon becomes yours, sorry folks, but that includes their drama too. Not a single person is drama free in SL, unless you block everyone. Isolation=No Drama

If you really embody the qualities of a "Bad Bitch", you would exemplify(demonstrate) them, not verbalize them

This "No Drama" trend is synonymous to those females touting the pick or tag, "Bad Bitch". Why would one feel the need to say they are? What are you trying to prove to everyone? If you really embody the qualities of a "Bad Bitch", you would exemplify(demonstrate) them, not verbalize them.
It seems to me that those who tout the title or profile pick of "No Drama" and/or "Bad Bitch" are only in the process of convincing themselves (cause they ain't foolin' nobody).

would be better off putting "No Conferences" 

In conclusion, those sporting "No Drama" tags would be better off putting "No Conferences" since (from my experiences) is where most of the drama stems from or is created. "No Drama" is a flat out myth. For women to tote it around in their profile, like an accessory, that somehow makes them more appealing to a male (and vice versa, no way is this just about women doing this) is pure absurdity.

Like all of sudden you have on this "shield" that protects you from drama

 Just as somehow putting it in the profile makes you Drama Proof. Like all of sudden you have on this "shield" that protects you from drama.   It's almost like they are telling on themselves in a twisted way.  Your mental capacity and discernment keeps you drama free. Your ability to keep track of red flags and trigger words keeps you drama free. The ones touting the "No Drama" myth around are most likely in the middle of a shit load of drama and don't even have a clue, but they steady rockin' that "No Drama" tag. (LMAO)


Wooo that was work... untwisting a twisted world is never easy...
Enjoy.