I know it has been a minute since I been gone. I apologize to everyone for that, but RL situations have to be handled. Second Life should always be second. Before I took a small break, I found this little gem on accident. With a string of somewhat good luck, I found this location and one more that were blog-worthy. There is something about how this location is set up that makes it feel old timey, special and underground all at the same time. When you drop down here, you land on the street, you get to see the outside of the location before entering. Upon walking through the wooden doors, you are instantly greeted by...

It blew me away, and as I turned the corner I prayed, "please impress me some more..." I was almost sweating from the excitement. The light fixtures fit the theme perfectly. This entire location has an elegant feeling to it. Very sensual, jazzy, with soft lighting. Everything is evenly placed about, nothing fighting for your attention. Just easy. The fish tank is in the wall.. and it has moving fish (extremely cool) .

With statues set about, and some extremely decor-matching tip jars, this place sets itself apart with detail! Something I encourage all clubs, venues, galleries to try to accomplish. With so many beautiful themes available, you can go from ancient themes to the most modern, all it takes it a desire to be different than all the rest.

If you take the time to explore this location you will eventually find this hallway... and I am going to leave that there for you. Creating a lil' mystery is always good and I hope that whoever you are will take time to visit this location and really feel the energy here. It's marvelous and I hope you enjoy this venue. With traffic just under 40, this place is brand new and umm (cough cough) Lindens better give credit where it's due. More than a few times have a location (I featured on this blog) that had very low traffic end up "mysteriously" featured on the destination guide. So, if a Linden who is supposed to be in charge of finding new places is following this blog, either offer me a job or go find your own locations. (smiles)



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This brand new club was brought to my attention by a friend and I have to say it is amazing! The entire setup of this location flows and its all about house music! Those of us who were sick to our stomachs when we lost Embassy will find a very friendly home here. The people here are friendly and actually talk to you (which is rare). Expect to be greeted in chat and over the stream. The entire club sits over water which gives it a sense of peacefulness. There is seating outside and close to the windows, so you get a serene view of the water.

With beautiful vendor spaces, I can see this place selling out of vendor space pretty quickly. The vendor area is more of a mall, way better than your run of the mill, randomly placed vendors you see at some locations. It actually entices you to walk through. The pyramid-like structure of this club is awesome and the glass windows give you a view of the sky. If you take the time to play around with your windlight settings you will find a beautiful sunset or amazing night sky which caters to the senses.

Once you get to the DJ booth, if you take the time to look around you will see an amazing set of interactive piano keys. They light-up and play sound as you walk over them, I spent 15 mins playing around on it. It's fun and different, considering alot of locations refuse to cater to those interactive instincts in Second Life.

Right behind the keyboard there is another dance floor outside. This second location gives more options for DJ's to have their sets outside and that is a big plus. Overall, this club caters to the senses, and the music is HOT. Their line-up of DJ's are considerate and do not talk over the stream too often. A few clubs have done that and therefore lost me as a regular. When it is house music, the music speaks for itself. Especially with techno music, the trance aspect of it is important and vocals ruin the experience. I hope this club is around long, so many great locations have disappeared. Enjoy!


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I am an advocate of observation. While some may think observing one's patterns is difficult in Second Life, it is exactly the opposite. There are soo many tools you can use to your advantage when navigating the "waters" of Second Life. This platform we flock to on the daily gives us very little protection from the individual with malicious intentions. One of the signs of malicious intent is downplaying their actions. We have to realize that what they do in Second Life is a clear indication of their Real Life morals. Would you associate yourself with a liar, thief or negative person in Real Life? Then why would you allow them into your Second Life?

 "You can easily spot those without morals, all it takes is a little understanding of human psychology."

With a lack of moral police in Second Life, we have to be our own moral police. It is safe to say that those you have had a negative experience with in Second Life congregate with those of the same moral standards. You can easily spot those without morals, all it takes is a little understanding of human psychology. The profile is "the" first impression of the individual and exposes what that person values in Second Life. I have seen a few who "rep" their families and lovers in their profile but they never seem to take into account the kind of "reputation" that individual has. Their behavior towards others in Second Life can easily create a snowball of animosity that they do not see coming.

"Be extra weary of the female who has their sister's husband (brother-in-law) in her profile."

If you find yourself fighting their battles, then you can see how what they do has a direct effect on you. Be weary of those looking to include you in ALL their endeavors and relationships. Be extra weary of the female who has their sister's husband (brother-in-law) in her profile. Anyone who seeks to "Rep" someone else's relationship are way to "emotionally" involved in a relationship that has shit to do with them. I can say with some degree of certainty that female is either jealous, envious and just may be fucking her sister's husband. That profile "shout-out" is nothing more than a tactical ruse to pull the wool over her "sister's" eyes.

"It is inevitable that you will get "close" to people here and setting boundaries is the only way to insure your continued happiness in Second Life."

This grid has tons females and males with ulterior motives. It is up to you to be vigilant in bobbing and weaving your way out of situations that can turn your oasis from Real Life into a complete nightmare of stress and public fights. It is inevitable that you will get "close" to people here and setting boundaries is the only way to insure your continued happiness in Second Life.
I have a belief that has been proven to me in Real Life more than once. The belief is that any woman who introduces me to a man she thinks I would "like" has ulterior motives. That woman was either rejected by that man and in an effort to stay "close" to him, she decided I would be a great proxy for that. Or they have already had sexual relations of some kind and she thinks I will accept her sloppy seconds.

"You cannot control all the moving parts when dealing with others. All you can do is control yourself and who you allow into your Second Life."

So many people in Second Life are in denial of another's intentions and then want to publicly embarrass someone because they failed to get a demo. The Demo is that profile, the demo is the group they hang out with, the demo is that first conversation where they try to "tell" you they ain't bout that drama instead of showing you. Anyone who has to "Tell" you something instead of showing it are most likely lying through their keys. You cannot control all the moving parts when dealing with others. All you can do is control yourself and who you allow into your Second Life. (this applies to Real Life as well!) If you hold yourself in high regard, there will always be people who will want to tarnish that. There are people who will literally seek you out in an effort to make you a public spectacle so they can tout reasons on why everyone should not deal with you.

Demo Dem' for your happiness and satisfaction.

There is a play happening just under the surface in Second Life and there are people who want you to come out of character. This is the fastest and most effective way to get yourself grouped with the lowlifes and ratchets and this is the bait you must avoid. Demo Dem' for your happiness and satisfaction. Because there is absolutely no one for you to complain to if they don't fit your program for a happy Second Life.



Happy Demos Folks!

The Golden Moon surprised me! At first felt like I was about to see a magical act of some kind. The black curtains at the entrance gave off the energy of "Showtime" and "Wonder". Every time I land in front of a venue and I see something thoughtful, I am praying, "please wow me! pleeeeaasseee wow me!" Sometimes the venue lets me down, other times it follows through. The entrance has these two display cases that I am sure has someone dancing in them when they have an event. The display cases are actually perfect.

"Get ready for the greatest show of your Second Life."

I can totally see someone in there as you walk into the lounge and the feeling you get being greeted like that is unmatched. It sets the tone of the place. Essentially saying, "Get ready for the greatest show of your Second Life." As you walk further in you see a ton of seating. I think I might have set in every seat in there, just to try out the animations and plan where I am going to sit to watch their next show.

The center stage steals your attention, leaving you wondering what all goes down up there. The sexy chair, sitting there... waiting to be sat on! (lol) It lures you in, makes you want to watch. This stage is presenting to you the only person in the entire place that matters. The entertainer.

The color scheme is sultry, cheetah print chairs and golden moons...

This club is not about competition, it's about the art form of dancing... of seducing. So many clubs have soo many dancers competing for tips, creating a rat race instead of a show. The color scheme is sultry, cheetah print chairs and golden moons scattered about, with one large moon representing the title of the establishment.

The backstage featuring a golden moon and curtains, is more of a side stage but it also has its own personality. Almost like a magic show, (now you see tits, now you don't lol) whispering erotic ideas in your mind. I almost would like for whoever graces that stage to read everyone a bedtime story. (lol)


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I am so happy to report that today this blog has hit 🔥1000🔥 views! Which is a big mile marker for me! In the beginning I did not expect my blog to even get 100 views. This is a big thank you to everyone who has visited my blog, read my blog and have given me value feedback in-world. This blog started out as an idea to deliver information about amazing places within the Second Life platform that have no way of getting on that forever-coveted Destination Guide. I am forever appreciative to the owners of these locations that have messaged me through Flickr in appreciation!

I now feel it is time for me to find a balance. I've done enough Snipets to last a lifetime and now I must get back to covering locations.

As my blog transformed into a venting platform on different topics, I now feel it is time for me to find a balance. I've done enough Snipets to last a lifetime and now I must get back to covering locations. So in the next few days, (maybe even tonight) I will post a blog about a very awesome lounge I found recently (yea, I been holding out lol). Writing is my passion and there are things about design that I absolutely adore in Second Life. So, this blog is a combination of those two elements. I hope that everyone who likes my blog will continue to give me feedback, positive or negative. I am fine with constructive criticism and even with a debate about the topics I cover.


I promise to never sell my blog as a way for clubs or location to gain traffic. That is why I do this on my terms, my way, without peddling a location to you because the owner wants me to. I only cover places that are uniquely beautiful. Some of the buildings may be prefab, but the way it is set-up inside changes the feel of it.

Which is why I encourage people donate to these locations, join their groups and spread the word about events.

At this time I would like to take a moment of silence for the locations on my blog that have disappeared. My heart goes out to them, because Second Life has rigged the system so much until these places could not survive by pumping their money into something they thought would at least cover the tiers. Which is why I encourage people to donate to these locations, join their groups and spread the word about events. If you like a place, please do your part to keep it there. I donate as often as I can but I cannot do everything for everyone, but we can all do something together for the collective whole.

I hope that the egos of those who own successful clubs in Second Life will not block the potential growth that is possible by working with others.

I hope that the places with high traffic will begin to team up with newer clubs and sponsor them. That would be an awesome thing to do. We have to work together to keep these amazing places open. I hope that the egos of those who own successful clubs in Second Life will not block the potential growth that is possible by working with others. If clothing store owners can make clothes that work together then club owners can do the same. DJ's should be able to share venues (as well as patrons/followers) and bring a wide range of professionally mixed music across the grid.


The division of genres across the grid isolates people when music should be joining us together. What I have noticed (and it saddens me) is that DJ's have "beef". One DJ feels the another is inferior. If one is better than the other, they should be helping one another, not ripping the other one to shreds over non-sense.

This grid is here for all of us, we can all create an even more amazing grid as well by acknowledging those who come with new ideas and new venues. That's what this blog is here for. If I find your location and it has under 1000 in traffic, and its visually appealing, 9 times out of 10 I will consider writing a post about it.

Digital Exploration!
🔥BayBeeBella Over N' Out!🔥

I know I been gone for a lil' bit, but I am back ya'll! So let's jump into this topic and get soaking wet in it! (I'm feeling freaky right now so yea)    So, the Black Side (yes there is a blackside in Second Life) has watered-down the chat box into a gesture box. So many women utilize gestures as a form of communication when there is literally millions of combinations of words at their disposal. What brought this subject into such great importance was a situation that went down at a strip club "Grand Opening" that was just a big no-no. A woman on a stripper pole decided to beg for tips. I decided it was time for me to show them how it was really done. Turned on my sexy and I got on that pole and did a few emotes, but all that quickly came to a halt when my first tip of 200 lindens resulted in me only getting 100 lindens. (yes, they took half) I never decided to do it for the money, I did it as an example but I ain't no damn slave either.

Seduction is an art form like no other. It lends you the possibilities to seduce any man if you understand the psychological impact of written/typed words.

There are numerous arrangements of words that can entice and seduce a man or woman. Since I am heterosexual with lesbian behavior in my past, I will focus on seducing the male. Seduction is an art form like no other. It lends you the possibilities to seduce any man if you understand the psychological impact of written/typed words. I ain't gonna toot my own horn, but I have successfully aroused men with just text. If they were not aroused, they were definitely interested enough to beg me not to stop. It can be done, but it takes creativity and passion for descriptive writing.

With words, you can create chemistry where you may think there is none.

I do not come into Second Life, (an overpriced chat room) to just look good. My passion has always been writing and that will never change. With words, you can create chemistry where you may think there is none. Voice chatting may crossover into "Real Life" too much for some people which leaves you with only the chatbox to work with. We all come to Second Life with a goal of some kind, even if it is only to enjoy being in Second Life, then that is a goal.

She will give off subtle, sexy, energy with every word, leaving each word dripping with sexiness. 

Any woman who is mature and confident in Real Life can control the chatbox at her discretion. She will give off subtle, sexy, energy with every word, leaving each word dripping with sexiness. Tonality(the undertone of one's words) may be hard to to read, but with a graceful disposition a woman's words can never be misconstrued. The art of emoting is supposed to entice, intrigue, arouse, and straddle the mind of the man you are roleplaying with or just interested in. Mastering the art of emoting is invaluable to the single woman in Second Life. Once you get that partner you desire, keep your relationship fresh by checking out romantic novels and pay close attention to how the scenes play out, but also to the sexiest word arrangements. What turns you on may turn on your partner, best way to find out is to at least try to be spontaneous in Second Life with the roleplay.


Flourish in the Art of Emoting
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The finest man in Second Life can offer me to dance with him and I will always decline. You must think I am insane, crazy, stupid, a bore etc, but here is why I am not:
There is no such thing as "Innocent Dancing" in public within Second Life, those little poseballs can literally launch you into total stardom, or turn you into a Second Life household name with a deep, nasty connotation added on to it.  If you have not seen "He Wasn't Man Enough" by Toni Braxton, then let me demonstrate this as best I can with words, (you can watch the video here). In no way is just dancing with someone leaping into "marriage" but it will definitely have a silent effect on your reputation as a single woman in Second Life. (this also applies to men as well, but we will get to that.)

"Whether their "hookup" was public or not, her friends know about him, and his homies know about her." 

If the male avatar is older than one month, there is a 99% chance that he has dealt with a female in some kind of romantic way in Second Life. Even if it is just vanilla sex, roleplay, etc, he will forever have some ties to that woman. Whether their "hookup" was public or not, her friends know about him, and his homies know about her.

"Everyone in the club is watching. The whispers begin. "

Now that we have established that, here is where you (the innocent, single woman) comes into play. You are standing in a packed club. People from all over the grid are there and this fine man asks you to dance.  You accept. The moment you click that poseball, (you know that weird dance happens first where you are standing away from each other) he chooses the most romantic dance, in the middle of a packed club. He's hugging you and saying all the right things in your IM. Everyone in the club is watching. The whispers begin. The silent questions from homegirls and homeboys light up that one girl's box who was just raving about this man the other day. ("Wasn't you talkin' about how great he was?")

"You've walked into a trap that you will never get out of.
 Make it innocent in your mind all you want. "

SL god forbid that girl is the club owner, a clothing designer, or has some kind of sim control to a popular location, (you are fucked). If this man was on that woman's plate in any kind of way (he might have just been an appetizer, or even the main course) You have just made an enemy. If this woman is an ex-girlfriend, ex-wife, ex-fling. she will try to twist the narrative of their separation to make you look "thirsty" because she could not "bag" him and get  or keep that partner box occupied. You've walked into a trap that you will never get out of. Make it innocent in your mind all you want. You've taken the bait.

"You've just become a display and reassertion of his manhood/sexiness/power and now she is jealous of you."

If he left her, he has just used you to add Insult to Injury to a still open and raw wound. You've become a display and reassertion of his manhood and now she is jealous of you. She will do everything in her power to dumb down your Second Life reputation to that of a hoe, a sleazy, man-stealing bitch. She may even go to great lengths to get him back into her life and bothering you may just be the easiest route. She will assume that you knew about their "relationship" and accepting this dance in front of her is a stab at her "womanhood". The worst part is if this woman is on your list and you had no idea this was some dude she had "dealings" with. Therefore this can create an enemy in your circle, which is REALLY dangerous. (you see I underlined that, I never underline, so I'm not joking)



As for men, if a guy who banged that chick is in the room when she accepts that dance. He might begin the next conversation he has with her in the realm of slut, whore, etc. If his homies know yo' homies, it's over for her if she does find a good man who hasn't already "heard" about her. Face it, in Real Life men gossip more than women, and in Second Life, I am sure it is way more rampant.

"What confirmed my suspicions of foul play was, "oh none of them are here right now."

In conclusion, Public Dancing is never Innocent. Just tonight a guy asked me for a dance and I declined, he tried to make it seen harmless, and I explained to him why(which is what sparked me to write this post).  What confirmed my suspicions of foul play was, "oh none of them are here right now." I could not believe my eyes. If a man feels comfortable enough to ask you for a dance in a packed club, know that he frequents that location and know it is not far-fetched for some love torn female to be stalkin' the place, watching his every move. Hey, if you wanna Kim Kardashian your way through Second Life, then by all means do that. But, when the drama comes lighting up your IM, you cannot say you was not warned. There is absolutely no way you can know of all the moving parts and the people involved with that person you are "innocently dancing" with. There are people here looking for a fight, looking to make your Second Life miserable. Be vigilant in protecting your peace and joy.


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